We all know that we need to change. We are all aware that we are not fully the person who God has called us to be, but the reality is that change can't happen alone. We need each other. We need support, community, and accountability to see real transformation. We need someone to come alongside us and help us to make sense of our story - to make sense of our present situation in light of the past - in a non-judgment, gentle and truthful way. This is the path to freedom.
The truth is that you are who you are today primarily because of the relationships that formed you and the environment in which your brain developed. And you don't have to have an obviously traumatic past in order to need healing. For many of us, our wounds are so subtle that we don't even know they are there
. And the enemy wants to keep it that way
. If we dont recognize the wound, it keeps festering and we never receive healing. Meanwhile, we just keep beating ourselves up thinking that the key to change is just TRYING HARDER (which clearly it isn't...)We were wounded through relationship, and we are healed through relationship
. God wants to reparent our hearts
and lead us into new and healing relationships with Him and our brothers and sisters in Christ. If we have been trying to change through learning more information, and we haven't begun engaging with others and processing what we are learning in light of our own stories, deep change is unlikely to happen. This is why I have created my new online community: H.E.R. Transformation.
We need God, powerful mentorship, psychology that is grounded in the truths of our faith, AND support from others in order to experience deep and lasting change in our lives!
Let's link arms and see what we God will do through us!!